Real Conversations. Real Impact.

Real conversations open the door to real transformation. Individual therapy, group support, discernment counseling, and Conscious Family Care™ provide a space for people to move forward with clarity, courage, and renewed direction.

  • Choosing Your Path

    Therapy (Clinical Support): For our Kansas and Missouri clients, we provide licensed clinical therapy to help you heal from divorce, trauma, or burnout. We look inward and backward to help you find peace and stability.

    Coaching (Strategic Support): For clients locally and nationwide, coaching focuses on outward and forward movement. We provide the tools and strategy to help you "level up" your life, career, or co-parenting dynamic.

  • Personalized support for navigating stress, life transitions, relationship challenges, and emotional healing. Together we work to build insight, resilience, and meaningful change.

  • A supportive space where individuals can grow alongside others who share similar experiences. Group therapy fosters connection, perspective, and encouragement in the healing process.

  • For couples at a crossroads in their relationship. Discernment counseling helps partners slow down, gain clarity, and decide thoughtfully about the future of their relationship.

  • A trauma-informed framework designed to support families in restoring healthy connection, communication, and emotional safety within the family system.

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Discernment Counseling

A Specialized Service for Couples at a Relationship Crossroads

The "Leaning-In" vs. "Leaning-Out" Dynamic: Most couples therapy assumes both partners are 100% committed to saving the marriage. Discernment Counseling is designed for when one partner is "leaning out" and the other is "leaning in."

A Path Toward Certainty: If you feel stuck in a state of limbo, this short-term, structured process helps you decide the future of your relationship with clarity and confidence.

  • Discernment counseling is designed for couples where:

    • One or both partners are considering divorce but aren’t completely certain.

    • You want to "slow down" the process to look at all options.

    • Traditional marriage counseling has felt like "too much, too soon."

    • You want to move forward with a sense of peace, knowing you explored every path.

  • Unlike traditional therapy, the goal of Discernment Counseling isn't to fix the relationship—it is to choose a direction. We work together to explore three distinct paths:

    • Path One: Keep things as they are (status quo).

    • Path Two: Move toward separation or divorce with clarity and dignity.

    • Path Three: A six-month commitment to an all-out effort in couple therapy (with divorce off the table during that time) to see if the relationship can be restored.

    • Time-Limited: Usually 1 to 5 sessions. You decide after each session if you want to return for one more.

    • Individual Focus: Most of the session time is spent in one-on-one conversations with me, allowing each partner to speak their truth without fear of immediate conflict.

    • Non-Judgmental: There is no "good guy" or "bad guy." We focus on understanding the story of your marriage and what it would take to change the current trajectory.

  • "Horao" means to see with understanding. In this process, we aim to give you the "eyes to see" your relationship honestly—honoring the history you’ve built while acknowledging the reality of your current pain.

    Ready to find clarity? Schedule an Initial Discernment Session.

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Conscious Family Care™

A Trauma-Informed Framework for Healing Family Relationships

Helping families move from cycles of conflict and disconnection toward awareness, responsibility, compassion, and restoration.

  • Conscious Family Care™ may be helpful for families who:

    • feel stuck in repeating conflict cycles
    • struggle with communication or emotional reactivity
    • are navigating separation, divorce, or family transitions
    • want to rebuild trust and connection
    • desire healthier ways of relating to one another

  • Through the Conscious Family Care™ process, families learn how to:

    • recognize relational patterns that create conflict
    • take responsibility for their role in family dynamics
    • communicate with greater clarity and respect
    • develop empathy and compassion for one another
    • rebuild trust and emotional safety

  • The Conscious Family Care™ Framework is built on four core principles that support relational healing:

    Identity – restoring dignity and personal worth
    Responsibility – developing healthy accountability
    Compassion – cultivating empathy and understanding
    Restoration – rebuilding trust and healthy communication

    Families move through a guided process that helps translate these principles into everyday relational practices.

  • The program includes 8 structured sessions:

    1. Recognizing family patterns

    2. Developing emotional awareness

    3. Strengthening identity and personal dignity

    4. Practicing responsibility within relationships

    5. Building compassion and empathy

    6. Restoring trust and communication

    7. Practicing new relational patterns

    8. Creating a plan for ongoing family health

    Sessions are tailored to each family while following the Conscious Family Care™ framework.

  • Natasha Harris-Butler is the founder of Horao Wellness Group and the facilitator of Conscious Family Care, a program developed through Horao Wellness Group. Through her work, Natasha supports individuals and families navigating life transitions, relational challenges, and the process of identity healing. Her approach integrates trauma-informed therapy, relational insight, and compassionate guidance to help families develop healthier patterns of communication, connection, and care. Natasha is passionate about creating spaces where families can slow down, reflect, and move toward more thoughtful and supportive ways of relating to one another.

  • Conscious Family Care™ Program

    Includes:

    • 8 structured family sessions

    • Sessions may be scheduled weekly or bi-weekly depending on family needs.

    To register contact: scheduling@horaowellnessgroup.com.

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